The Cost of Being the Reliable One
PLACEHOLDER POST – replace before launch.
Being the person everyone counts on is a real skill, and it earns real trust. It also quietly sets a floor under how much you are allowed to struggle.
Why it gets harder to ask
The longer you hold the role, the more it costs to step out of it. Asking for help starts to feel like withdrawing a promise rather than making a request.
A smaller first step
Tell one person one true thing about how the last month has actually gone. Not the summary you have been giving. The real one.